Um

Hi, I have this friend.

We have known eachother for a while, used to roleplay on another forum and we got on quite well.
We used to sit up all night on msn and plot our next storylines for rp.
Even signed up to her site but, i lost the address to that, Found it though.
But lately, we seem to have lost contact.
I see her on msn now and then but she doesn't reply.
And when i drop her messages, she kinda gives up towards the end and stops replying.
She is never on msn anymore either.
I used to have her phone number but, since my old phone broke i lost it.
I left her a message on Facebook saying if she could text me so i could get it again but, she hasn't done so.

I'm worried, Doesn't she see me as a friend anymore

You could always try asking her, but I wouldnt worry if I were you. Maybe she's just busy...

too busy for even a little text?

Maybe...

How is that so?!

' I only have one pair of hands? I really could do with a second pair...

i'd lend yoy mine, but unlike my mind they arn't exactly, "No touchy" XD

>.> Eh? If they get too touchy I could bite them. XD

But that is what they want you to do '

They want to be bitten?

Not too rough

How long has this been going on for? If this has been going on for awhile, she may simply not be interested in you.

I was trying to get a friend that I met again online to actually meet me in rl. We used to go to the same high school, and she only lives in the next town over, which isn't that far. I kept on suggesting things for us to do together, some of which were free, but she either only made excuses or never returned my messages whenever I dropped the hint that I actually wanted to meet her in rl. I kinda gave up on trying to meet her and talk to her when I was seeing her posting all these messages on her Facebook about how she was doing all this stuff with her boyfriend and sister and co-workers. She didn't look so super busy to me that she couldn't see me for about an hour for lunch or something like that.

My advice is not to go on dumb blind faith alone. If she doesn't seem to be very active on any of her accounts, then she may indeed just be too busy to do much at the moment. If something suggests otherwise, she may simply just be ignoring you for some reason or another.

Hmm well, I wished we could have met up but i had no fundage to meet her and she understood this.

Maybe she isnt interested....Even as a friend??
That would be really depressing, at some point she was my best friend, And even then one of the only people who would talk to me without me messaging her.
I hope she isnt ignoring me...

She lives far away?

The friend I had only lived about 15 - 30 minutes away at the most. It really isn't that far so money wasn't a problem. I think she had to drive that far away to get to one of the places she used to work at.

Figure out what is going on. You may get the answer you want, but then again, you may not. She may simply be busy, like Ruinily said.

Oh yes oh wise one i shall seek the answer, even if it be one i do not like, iI will put up with it.

I'll ask ruinily some more, i think she will have good insight into it

All I'm saying is don't waste your life away waiting for this person to return if she won't. I'm sure that you do have better things to do with your time and yourself than waiting for something that won't appear if it won't.

Your friend may just be busy. One of my friends is busy right now, and she doesn't give me a reason to doubt that. She's not posting all this stuff up about how she's doing different kinds of things and then ignoring me. She's just kinda been inactive in general over the past few months, and she told me that she was busy with school projects before she became more absent.

Your description reminded me more of the person I had problems with. Unless you like to complain for the sole sake of complaining, you wouldn't complain about your friend if you thought there was nothing wrong, right? I don't complain about my busy friend being a faithless friend or losing interest because she hasn't been answering my messages very much over the past few months.

I used to have some very close friends, but I haven't talked to one in about six years and another for a few years now. So I do not say it very lightly that there may be a possibility that you may have to accept an unwelcomed truth and simply move on.

She isn't a waste of time to me, But someone special haha.
Blah the whole thing is a mess, i just dont want to give up just yet

Keep trying, don't give up

(I was gone for the holiday.)

I know how that goes. I didn't want to give up so easily on a friend that I had. A few actually. It lead to nowhere good, though, and it didn't change a thing for me. Maybe you'll have better luck, though.